Bless your heart. I can feel your unsureness about how to proceed. It seems like this man is creating distance and I am sure that is making you nervous. Unfortunately, men get VERY nervous when we start obsessing about the state of the relationship.

What is the best case scenario for you? What do you really want from this man. Take some time and write out a list of all the things you want from this man in your life. And then time for brutal honesty. Does he really have it in him to give you all you are looking for. If he does, that is great. Pull your energy in a little bit and regroup. Giving yourself break from the worry will re-energize you.

If he realistically is not a perfect match for you, take three deep breaths and begin to think about letting him go. You have something very special to offer the right guy and if it is too hard to keep it happy, it might be a sign for you to move on.

I am married to my second soul mate. I would have never thought that was possible. I used to think you only had one chance. Now I know for sure that it is worth everything to find a man who really gets you and likes you!

Good luck,
Catherine